“My family has been living in rented houses for as long as I can remember. We have never had a home of our own. Throughout my childhood and even now, all I have witnessed is violence, arguments, and verbal abuse within my family.
My father constantly speaks badly about my mother. He seems to have some kind of suspicion or misunderstanding, but I honestly don't know what is going on in his mind. He repeatedly accuses my mother of having affairs with different people. If someone happens to be on the roof, he connects that person to my mother. If someone simply wishes her well or talks to her, he finds a way to turn it into something inappropriate. He makes these disgusting accusations without any shame or consideration for how much they hurt her.
My mother is an innocent and ageing woman. She has already been through so much, yet she continues to tolerate everything. I am constantly frightened because I never know when my father will start another argument or begin abusing her verbally. Sometimes, I have to put my fingers in my ears just to avoid hearing his horrible words. I cry during the day and sometimes throughout the entire night because I feel helpless.For a long time, I have dreamed of moving abroad, building a better future, and eventually settling my family somewhere safe and peaceful. I wanted to complete my studies, get a job, and perhaps take an education loan to make that dream come true, just as my father had once suggested. But now, because of everything happening in our family, it feels as though all my dreams have been shattered.
I feel trapped between wanting to build my own future and wanting to save my mother from the life she has been forced to live. I don't want anything luxurious. I just want a peaceful home where my mother can live happily without being insulted, accused, threatened, or frightened.
I am only 22, and I already feel like I have so many responsibilities on my shoulders. I don't know where to begin, what decision to make, or how to get us out of this situation. All I know is that I cannot bear to see my mother suffer anymore. I just want a safe home, financial independence, and a better life for both of us.”
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Someone answered with kindness...
Wow. I mean, you’re kind of a hero. Like, a Batman hero, with the trauma. I can’t do anything, but, you’re a strong person.😢