Someone once asked...

“My ex. Yeah it seems so stuid when hearing it , I know, but i can`t hal but think 'Was I the reason?" "was I the problem"?. because without me he changed so so much (not in a good way), and I`m wondering if that was who he was all along, and that i just didn`t see it, or worse I MADE HIM act a certain way with me where he didn`t feel comfortable, goning from being treated as a princess to gum on the back of his shoes... just, hurts. I miss him, but I don`t want to date him, which is confusing ,I miss the old version of him, the version which will never come back.”

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Someone answered with kindness...

I’m not your therapist take it up with someone else sorry…

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Wandering voices — answers no one has read yet

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Another soul answered...

sadly this is true he may be gone well his old self, and when you break up with someone this is often is a thing that can happen but i believe that you will be able to power through and i'm sure that soon enough you will find someone else someone you can really open to fill the hole in your heart but until then. you should occupy your time with other things to take your mind off it get a hobby or two something like that and you in no need have to think if you forced him to anything or act different because its over now if you where still with him then that could be a problem to work through together but right now the best thing you can do is open your eyes to new possibilities.