“my ex and i are in the same friend group, so when i was venting to my friends about him, he said because of me, those friends hate him now and i was bitching about him but i was just venting idk if what he said is true or not but now they dont like him and he tells me all the time that because of me he lost those friends idk if hes right or wrong because my intention was never to make everyone dislike him”
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See- you can not control someone else's feelings towards your ex. So, in your defence, I would say that you were just venting and that it was on your friends to make up a decision about him. So it is NOT AT ALL your fault - people "hate" him because of the way he is, not because of you.