“My boyfriend's family found out about our relationship. Before they found out, he used to treat me really well. He never used to speak harshly to me, but ever since his family found out about us, he has completely changed. He keeps scolding me, avoiding me, and treating me differently.
I used to think he was a very good person, but now I'm starting to feel like his true personality is coming out.
He also had a past in which he had sexual relationships with several girls. He never told me about this while we were in a relationship. He only revealed it after we broke up because his family found out about us.
Now he says that he doesn't want to continue the relationship. I even told him that we could be more careful this time and make sure his family doesn't find out again, but he still refuses.
I honestly don't know what to do anymore. This whole situation is affecting me mentally, and I'm feeling extremely disturbed. I never expected him to change so much or treat me this way.
I need advice. Should I stay with him and try to save this relationship, or should I let him go and move on? I don't know what's right for me anymore.”
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Maybe it's time to move on . You can't change the thoughts of a person who has completely changed now . He isn't right for u anymore . So getting back won't be right for you. Moving on can be hard but isn't difficult so please do not go back to him .
Wishing u the best