My boyfriend loves me i know that. I do, but im always overthinking even when he doesn't text me for a while or doesn't call me I feel like he is abandoning me. I mean ik he is not.

But still it feels like it.

I don't say anything. Im scared i might come off as needy or clingy.
I try to be chill but I can't

Question

My boyfriend loves me i know that. I do, but im always overthinking even when he doesn't text me for a while or doesn't call me I feel like he is abandoning me. I mean ik he is not.

But still it feels like it.

I don't say anything. Im scared i might come off as needy or clingy. 
I try to be chill but I can't

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

I get what you mean. Sometimes our minds make us feel things even when we know there's nothing wrong. But please don't be so hard on yourself. Wanting attention, reassurance and communication doesn't make you clingy or needy. You shouldn't have to hide your feelings just to seem chill. The right person will want to understand you, even on days when you're overthinking a little more than usual
Take care.
Don't overthink much everything is okay it's just your thoughts