My boyfriend likes women on the internet on insta he likes pictures of actresses and models and it’s not like one two pictures he basically likes many many pictures and reels and posts of the same 4-5 actresses and it’s making me uncomfortable and sad - does it constitue cheating am I in the wrong here ? I communicated it to him but he does not listen says every guy does this am I wrong here ? Pls tell me how to fix this

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Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

Girl I don’t think you are wrong for feeling this way. every guy does it isn’t an excuse to dismiss your feelings. You have already communicated how it makes you feel so he should at least try to understand your perspective instead of making you feel like you are overreacting. You deserve to feel respected in your relationship. Tbh I think you should talk to him about it one more time but instead of arguing about whether it’s cheating or whether every guy does it try explaining what exactly bothers you. Tell him that it’s  about him repeatedly liking their pictures and how it makes you feel.Ask him if he understands why it bothers you .if he genuinely cares about how you feel he should at least be willing to  change that . But remember you can’t force someone to change. If he still dismisses your feelings  then I think you need to consider whether this is something you can genuinely be okay with in the long run.