Someone once asked...

“My boyfriend cheated on me so many times m just so confused what should i do mental health wise m not doing gd at all”

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Someone answered with kindness...

oh honey, leave him. cheating multiple times shows how he doesn’t value you and Idk you but ik know you are so much more than that. you deserve to be with someone who treats you right.

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Another soul answered...

It’s not easy to leave someone, I understand you. Try to love yourself more, reconnect with things you love. Find yourself again. Try new things and slowly stop associating the things you love with him slowly remove his presence from your life as you take better care of yourself. Wear that beautiful dress, have that tasty dessert, go on solo dates , take yourself out learn new things about yourself. You are not inferior to anyone in this world. You deserve to be loved and trust me this isn’t the end, it sounds so unfair, you think that you aren’t enough and keep comparing yourself with others that constant insecurity! Believe me that’s not true. You’re much more than you think you are and value yourself more, once your learn how much you mean to this world nobody will ever hurt you like he does. You don’t need someone else that determines your value. You’ll be fine. I trust you, I believe that you will be yourself again. I wish you well dear stranger, survive the storms and you’ll surely get to the sunshine and rainbows❤️

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Another soul answered...

Just leave him. Dont stay for the potential or just bcs youve INVESTED so much… LEAVE

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Another soul answered...

You should leave him girl, he will never change. Imagine yourself preg or old what will he do on those days? You are young now find another men he will make you feel good and your mental health will automatically be good

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