“my boyfriend and i are in LDR and we argue quite often whenever we fight, i just don't know how to express what i'm feeling without hurting him. so i end up staying silent. he hates it, and sometimes says really hurtful things, which makes it even harder for me to speak. he thinks my silence means i don't care about our relationship, but the truth is, whenever we fight, i feel like crying. i have so much to say, but i just can't find the words, and that only makes him angrier.
i don't know if i should break up with him. i know my silence hurts him, and i can't stand the thought of being toxic to someone i love so much. but i really, really love him, and i don't want to lose him. i just don't know how to make him understand what goes on in my mind whenever we fight.”
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Someone answered with kindness...
text it to him whatever u feel and tell him how miserable you are about your communication skills and that you do care and love him he'll understand it I'm sure we are humans we feel things learn to say what you feel without sugarcoating it and if you think you love someone and you won't be mean to them it doesn't happen sometimes your siblings or parents shout at you or are rude it doesn't mean they don't love you if you love him and want to be with him please tell him whatever you feel don't assume the other person can guess it it's difficult that it seems just say whatever you feel you'll feel relieved and the things between you guys will sort too