“my bf had said he wants entrepreneuial energy, i dont have that, he said i agree with everything he says, (but i do have my opinions and i try to convince him but he barely listens to anyone and always does things he wants to do, he does listen to what i say when our povs differ but rarely), we dated for more than 10 months and we knew each other before too, he had his close friends and all, but he always found me a comfortable person with whom he used to share things without judgement, we were good friends too and we had dated before too for 2 months but we were in school that time and immature too and boards were coming and all, so we broke up then, then we became good friends, he had a pull towards me but he was unsure that i deserve better but then he became better for me, we got into rlp, we had 2-3 huge fights but we used to resolve things and all, we really loved each other, we still do, we're in college now, and everything was good between us, but he believes best growth happens in isolation and he didnt want to be in rlp, and there's a reason he cant take risk and i understand that and so we broke up, now there's like really chances that we both may get back together after we both start earning and have financial stability, but around a week before we broke up, he told me about this, that he wants someone with entrepreneuial energy, and we talked about that, and it was ok then, but now i feel like when we're in no contact what if he finds someone with entrepreneuial energy and mindset and she may understand him better that i do/did and then he'll choose to be with her instead of getting back to me and then we'll be over forever and maybe that's what life is, please dont reply with that i'll get someone else too or he didnt love me for who i am, trust me he loved me, he still does, and we really wanted to marry each other one day, we had dreamt everything together, so i know we will end up together but this one thing is shattering my faith,”
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Someone answered with kindness...
He found you as his comfortable person only because you agree to everything he says and i don't think you should be with someone who is making you doubt your worth i don't mean to be rude to you but I have to make you see the reality so really sorry for that okay so go and marry him and then you'll regret marrying him and that is my guarantee cause he doesn't properly listen to you and is not grateful for you love is different and that part is different not everything works just because you love him or he loves you or else just wait until then and you'll see for yourself if he is into somebody else or still into you but ig you'll just waste your time until then