Someone once asked...

“Me and my LDR boyfriend have been dating since 11 months (we both are 21), we both choose eachother, and we rarely have any fights as we both are understanding & communicate really well :) What’s bothering me is his past. He had an 8 long year crush on a girl and rejected all the proposals that came to him just for her. All the girls swoon on him, and he just doesn’t care about any of them. I was never really this insecure, it’s been 5 months I keep feeling jealous of women who I don’t even want to be jealous of. I know this is retroactive jealousy, but I really want to stop idealising random girls or his past.”

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Someone answered with kindness...

Worrying is a waste of imagination

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Another soul answered...

Firstly, he chose you. You said that girls swoon on him and he consistently rejects them, however he chose to accept you. Secondly, this isnt weird. This is completely normal. Its normal to feel jealous of a girl he liked in his past. Thirdly, if you feel he is still in love with her, then you should talk to him about it. Bring up how you feel. Mention your jealousy and worries. You cant have a relationship without communication. The best way to stop idealising this girl is to remember that you are the girl now, not her.

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