Someone once asked...

“me and my boyfriend is in long distance relationship but his home is in my city so he comes in every 1 to 2 month here, the main problem is i sometimes feel like he is ignoring me on purpose. i know he loves me alot and i feel loved with him too but idk why i felt that”

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Someone answered with kindness...

You are just being a bit insecure about your relationship. If a guy truly loves you, you will know. And in your case, you are very certain that he loves you and I believe so as boys don't really have much going on in their head to cheat on their girlfriends (as a man, i am saying this). We, boys tend to have some feelings that we don't feel like sharing with our partners. There are some battles that we fight inside our head and only another male can understand this. He doesn't want to bother you for all of his thoughts. We need some alone time sometimes. He is probably ignoring you sometimes and it may be very intentional because he needs some time alone by himself to gather his thoughts, enjoy himself. But in that time, i am sure he is not talking to other women or anything as such. I know because I have done the same. I would ignore my gf's texts and reply an hour later when I feel like talking to her. In the meantime, I was not "unloving" her. Make sure he is emotionally available in most cases. But don't take it for granted. You need to respect his personal space. If you act very clingy often, he might find it annoying over time. Also don't leave much space for assumptions. If you are doubtful about something, do a face to face talk. But don't be so suspicious all the time, it will eventually ruin your relationship. Maintain mutual trust and respect. I hope he misses you as much as you miss him. Even he misses you a bit less than you do him, it's also fine. Relationship is not a competition. I wish you both all the best for this relationship. Hope you two end up together for this lifetime. Take care of yourself and everyone around you. Be the sunshine people seek for in others.

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Another soul answered...

It's very natural to feel the way you're feeling now. Being and experiencing long distance relationship is really an admiral quality. Because not everyone gets to experience the suffering of missing and missing. But then suddenly everything goes away after a single meet. Being with him is a very must to have thought. But even if he comes 1/2 times in a month. Consider yourself lucky because most long distance couples don't get to meet for months together or sometimes an year. Personally, I have been in a long distance relationship with my wife before wedding. We have met for the first after like an year. Then second time after 15 months. I say I am unlucky and I consider yourself lucky. Keeping this aside, what I can suggest you is if he comes to your city for whatever reason and meets you. That's fine and rest of it you initiate it. If he meets you this month, surprise him by going to his place next month. Like that you live in your relationship with both your physical presence and much more joy you get. Anger is a most common thing couple gets in a long distance relationship. Magic takes place when they meet each other. That one hug or kiss keeps everything aside. All the best to you & your boyfriend.

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