me and my boyfriend dating since we were 17 ,its been 7 yrs of us ,our families didnt accept our relationship ,and we both are pursing med school , and 1 yr back we eloped and got married ,since then we both are doing part times and studying ,and now it becoming burden , to pay fees and home stuffs . and top of that i m 2 months pregnent along , he stopped me from attending part time job , he quit med school for me ,only i m pursing it ,he is working a lot. i m feel soo quilty ,he is carrying soo much burden ,and people are saying why get pregnent ,when u both are in pathetic condition , but we couldnt stop ourself ,its just happened.how do i help him.

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me and my boyfriend dating since we were 17 ,its been 7 yrs of us ,our families didnt accept our relationship ,and we both are pursing med school , and 1 yr back we eloped and got married ,since then we both are doing part times and studying ,and now it becoming burden , to pay fees and home stuffs . and top of that i m 2 months pregnent along , he stopped me from attending part time job , he quit med school for me ,only i m pursing it ,he is working a lot. i m feel soo quilty ,he is carrying soo much burden ,and people are saying why get pregnent ,when  u both are in pathetic condition , but we couldnt stop ourself ,its just happened.how do i help him.

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

Just try work from home, or making small business or u can wait until the baby is born and then help him by continuing ur med school. Just give him good support and stay with him. He wouldn't mind to work for your future. Just stay as a backbone for him while he s working. U stop stressing ovr things that others talk. U both know what u r doing, they don't. Thy don't know ur hardwork and ur story. So don't mind abt wt others say