"Life is really sucks. This year feel like a big roller coaster everything got messed up. I don't want to talk anyone but the same time I want to tell what's happening with me. Got soon many insecurities and people just pointed out everytime make feel more sad about it. The confidence I had I lost it and my smile also. I want people just treat me like normal other people. And do not see me as a just treat pushover. I change myself and my personality but things are still same. What should I do about it ?"

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Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

Buddy, you says life sucks, you are insecure and have no confidence,but take a moment to go back to your Life and see how much you have influenced others, you may not realise it but u are role model for some, it's just that you don't know about it. You only see your insecurity and negativity in yourself,for once try to see the goodness in you. Think about how many people smiled because of you. Before saying u didn't made anyone smile or u are not a role model,just think it thoroughly. You want to be treated like a normal person,but i think you are meant for greatness,if you can just see the positivity in yourself, ignore others openion's like fart and believe in yourself I'm sure you can overcome everything. Remember it's your life so don't let others openion's influence it,you don't need to change yourself for others, change yourself for you. Be a better version. Stop seeing negativity in everything,try to find positiveness in everything, trust me, it makes a big difference. And finally if you think you don't have someone to tell all your problems,say it to the universe (talk to yourself,or to the stars), believe me the feeling you get after releasing everything is a worth every second. So live your life like your wish, don't let others influence you,be true to yourself, and cut off people who doesn't value you and your efforts,we have to let go of something for a new better replacement to arrive, remember don't feel guilty or sad,it's completely okay to be selfish,you are in a sense helping them and helping yourself too. Good luck in whatever you are doing 🤍

(Hope this Helps)