“Lately, I've been feeling quite lonely, despite having good people around me. I've always invested deeply in a very small circle of friendships, but over time everyone has developed their own lives, and I miss having someone with whom I can share the little, ordinary details of my day. I've never experienced a romantic relationship either, and I think I deeply crave that companionship — someone who chooses me, believes in me and inspires me to become a better person. At the same time, I'm worried that I'm imagining a future person as the source of motivation and direction that I haven't been able to find within myself. Professionally and personally, I have ambitions, but I feel exhausted, haven't made tangible progress on many of my ideas, and honestly don't enjoy my everyday life as much as I used to. How do I learn to enjoy my own life, find the drive to become a better person independently, and still make peace with the fact that I deeply want love, companionship and someone to share this journey with?”
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Someone answered with kindness...
Aah, you never did write dairy. Please start writing dairy.
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Another soul answered...
As a lonely person myself...I don't do out anymore and am stuck at home... nothing feels exciting...but that's life...I can't give up...
For me finding happiness in small things... doing what u love...and finding an not giving up on genuine connection helped....
You need to love yourself first not in a obsessive way or something...in a way you do things for yourself like you'd do things for a loved one....for example decorate your own dish...play your favourite song and actually sit with it...do something you always wanted to do....
When u learn to love the loneliness and your own company I thing you sort your life there...
Rest when u start adoring your life and yourself...... you'll do things independently for yourself and you'll be happy with it....you could expect a love life and yet be better