just underwent a breakup 2 months ago and I keep seeing this person on a daily basis, we agreed to be “friends” but holy hell is that hard. This is seemingly ‘normal’ btw us on a day to day basis, but emotionally, I crack up. I keep wanting her back, hoping something would change.
I genuinely want to feel better, I’ve tried all the methods to detach, ive been going to the gym, studying, changing myself for the better, and all i can hope for is she see’s the change in me

I keep asking myself questions about the future- in wain. How can I know I will be okay?
What if this was my only chance at love?
Will I ever be happy?

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just underwent a breakup 2 months ago and I keep seeing this person on a daily basis, we agreed to be “friends” but holy hell is that hard. This is seemingly ‘normal’ btw us on a day to day basis, but emotionally, I crack up. I keep wanting her back, hoping something would change. 
I genuinely want to feel better, I’ve tried all the methods to detach, ive been going to the gym, studying, changing myself for the better, and all i can hope for is she see’s the change in me

I keep asking myself questions about the future- in wain. How can I know I will be okay?
What if this was my only chance at love?
Will I ever be happy?

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

I don't know but if i were you then i would explain her the situation and then i would lose connection or any friendship with her, i would go to find myself to find what makes me happy how can i love myself how can i keep myself happy. And about love?  You don't need to find yourself a partner so quickly, love finds everyone. Wait and you eventually will meet your destiny but before that try everything to keep YOU happy.