Someone once asked...

“ive recently kind of came out, and yet whenever someone asks me for my pronouns or asks me how theyre supposed to call me or struggle using my perferred pronouns i feel like such a burden. i dont want to cause trouble to people and i dont know if i should stop trying to transition or keep going as a burden.”

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Someone answered with kindness...

It’s okay. Don’t stop transitioning just because your friends struggle with pronouns. You’re friends’ll get used to it. I’m straight, but my friend came out to me as non-binary a year ago, and I have like, 5 other gay friends, and, in about maybe a month of seeing each other near daily, “they” & “them” was in my brain as what to call them. I’m no expert, and Your friends may take longer, but they’ll use your pronouns easily eventually. Your not a burden because you’re LGBTQ+,