I’ve recently been in a relationship which lasted only 3 months and had a mutual break up due to a reason that we both don’t have a future together because of differences in our caste. we both are from same friend group and decided to remain friends but we still have feelings for each other though we can’t be in a relationship but he still wants to be closer to me without the commitment and I don’t want to loose him either but I'm a sensitive person with attachment issues and somehow trying to not overthink and accept things as it is but have anxiety and worried about what to do about this so I would really appreciate a suggestion or an advice on what I have to do about this situation I am facing.

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Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

bhai jb pta h future me saath nahi reh paoge/ na ladd paoge parents k saath ...to fir jitna jldi ho ske dur hi ho jao ..

otherwise sochle koi aur bhi partner milghya tujhe(kya 
pta fmaily hi dhundhe) but still wohi dimaag me rahega tere..

also " but he still wants to be closer to me without the commitment" --might be he just wanna get physical(he wont say that directly obviously)/physical benefits of a gf without portraying himself as a bad person as he already clarified that you guys cant be together ...so take that into account as well..

" I'm a sensitive person with attachment issues " bhai mt ho  isme aur jaada involve ,..the more time ,energy you will spend/invest in this relation,which apparentaly has no future, its gonna hurt you badly...
wo to side ho jaega ,apna dekhlega.