“ive never had a good friend..im gonna finish school in a while but now that I think of it, I dont even have any friends..I mean i do know a lot of people but..2 of them r the closest to me..but we dont hang out or anything..bcuz honestly I feel like we arent that close..and the thing is, idk im js scared of losing them bcuz im afraid if I do lose them, id have to go to school and be hella alone..I dont want that..idk why I failed to make a genuine connection with people at my school..ill be in college in like a year and yeah i js dk what to expect..im excited, yes but im also scared cuz what if I genuinely fail to create connection in college asw? i dont wanna be a loner”
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Someone answered with kindness...
You won't be a loner. In college you will find a lot of people who have same wavelength as you do.. In school you are just figuring yourself out . Every 5 years so many things about you changes.. It is good to have close friends but it is nice to know more about you when you are alone.. no matter what happens you need to support yourself and be comfortable being along with yourself... Ofcourse in emergencies friends care and support that is much needed.. but healing comes from within.. so he proud that you are getting that comfort being alone early.. and know ... Not hope... Know that you will find your people soon... Maybe in school or in college or a random festival... Peace ✌️