“I've know him for 5 months, we met online. It's been a great friendship which eventually turned into love, he says he loves me too. But the thing is we still haven't meet and it's kind of a LDR and everytime we try to met some issue comes up and our schedules don't match and most of the times I'm scared what if the vibe changes after we met? What if we don't feel the same? Also one more thing has been bothering me. He had previously been in relationship for 10 years, he said he has moved on but I see him liking weird stuff from his fake account liked I haven't moved on, I'll accept you even after you're married, how it feels dating a married women..so guys lemme know. How much does liking a particular type of content affect our personality/relationship around us? Would y'all be bothered if you're partner liked such reels? Or would you be understanding?”

Another soul answered...

considering your situation, LDR requires trust at the very first place and yes its something hard to gain ofc.. but once gained things get more clearer.. and tbh through texts you always dont understand what the other person really wanna express so maybe just have a voice call or video call and its very important u both share about your past.. this way you can gain his trust and truly a 10 yrs relo ia not a weak one. know the reasons for their break up, sot that u dont commit the same mistake or know if things were hard with him but he just tried to linger with it.. just make him feel comfortable and let him know if somewhere he too went wrong.. and make it clear for once and all cuz everytime putting forward an ex's convos could be disturbing for u too.. and now for the second account and about liked posts.. first follow his pattern, i mean check if he just likes those types of reels or like mixed.. and if he just likes those types of reels its normal, cuz again a 10 year relo is hard to forget. and everyone's coping mechanism is not alike or strong.. so just give him time and pls listen to ur intuition as females have it stronger anyways, that if he really wants to move on from his past and see a more brighter future with you or not.. hope it helps..