“I’ve built a strong friendship with a colleague over the past six months. We text late at night, and she confides in me about her everyday struggles. I’ve developed romantic feelings for her, but I have no idea how she feels about me.
Our dynamic keeps changing. One day we talk for hours without stopping, and the next day she goes completely silent. I don't think she is pushing me away on purpose—she might just be wrapped up in her own life problems.
Right now, it’s been two days since our last message. I am eagerly waiting for her to text back because I really miss talking to her. This silence makes me super anxious and afraid of losing what we have. Yet, when she comes back and acts like nothing happened, I freeze up and avoid having the real conversation we need.
What should I do now?”
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Someone answered with kindness...Thanked by the asker
U should go for it or else u might gonna regret it later. If you don't get to know what she feels Abt you you'll keep wondering right. Ik a guy who does exactly the same he did tell me what he feels for me but it was too late so don't do the same go for it or u have to supress ur feeling.
Btw I hope she likes u 2. Wishing you all the best😄
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Another soul answered...
A lot of people fall in this scenario, and it's human to slowly develop bonds or feelings towards someone whom you share close secrets and deep conversations with. However, to know whether they like you or not, one of you has to take a step.
But you need to ask yourself, are you ready to sacrifice whatever you have with her by confessing out?