“ive been spending time with this guy who’s a first year surgery resident here in my hospital (im an intern) we’ve been spending some time together and i genuinely see him as a good friend, ik i won’t ever date him cus he’s, well, not my type. but yk sometimes when i spend sm time w him and we talk about anything and everything im stuck in this loop whether im holding myself back for the sake of these weird standards of the society and not committing to him (he hasn’t asked me out yet) but then again it’s not even his looks that matter but its ahh idk its complicated but i do know i dont think he’s my type and i cant see myself with him in the future as well. should i break contact completely? or let things be? i feel so bad for him tho ;((( like what if im just leading him on?”
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Someone answered with kindness...
If you dont imagine your future with him then let it go , just be friends