“Ive been in a relationship since i was 18 and now its been 5yrs. My bf is 6 yrs older than me. Our relatioship was extremely rough in the beginning, he had major red flags which he slowly and surely overcame currently, however dealing with those red flags made him less trust worthy, he has lost respect, and faith too. He is genuinely reliable until his family gets into the picture. So, hes 30 and still has no sure income platform, hes earning but thats seasonal. I come from a nuclear family however he is ons of those large joint family guy. Ive just two concern one that he doesnt want to be stable. He promises big and then under delivers or just doesnt deliver at all. He comes from a biz family so no doubt hes in the line but then he says i dont want to use their money at all, but then when it comes to be stable himself, he just starts and never finishes. Secondly, his family, him being the youngest, most of the time he acts like their butler. And is not allowed to do anything that he wants to do. Like even go out twice in a row. Which pisses me off. Idk ik he loves me but im the eldest in my family and six years younger than him and i feel like im doing most of the manly stuff. I just want to be stable. Im just confused if this is the type of relationship i want to continue.”
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Someone answered with kindness...
If you are not sure about him it's better to stop this relationship. Ask your whether this is how you want your husband to be like. Since he is 30, don't look at watt he can do, look at wat he is doing