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“I’ve been emotionally attached to a girl I’ve known for a few months. We grew very close, with calls that often ran three hours, and she opened up about her past and her ex. I never got a clear romantic signal, though. Our plans stayed vague (“dk”, “will see”), her texting was dry, and she said confessing ruins things and that someone getting involved with her would have their life ruined. Through her friends, I learned she knew I liked her and was indirectly telling me she had someone else so she wouldn’t hurt me. Later she told me directly that she can’t reciprocate, and I apologised for getting too comfortable. I then tried to give myself space, but a few things went wrong. I put pressure on her over a birthday website I’d made, I reached out too much, and I wrote emotional texts. Her friends said this made her uncomfortable, and one told me my feelings were putting pressure on her, which felt like blame. She then went quiet, and everything started reaching me through third parties. She says she hasn’t abandoned me and asks why there’s so much drama, while I feel like an option who’s carrying all the emotional weight. I’ve been drained, angry, not eating properly at times, and at moments calling myself a loser, though I know liking someone isn’t a crime but still after all this we still talk but now she ignore the reels i send like seen zones it ad the messgaes replies late...Idk what to do atp...I want to talk to her but i fear that the same thing will happen again....”

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Yeah I read the updates and nope she ain't right for u brother believe me .. she doesn't want u to confess but also gets jealous I mean she ain't right Keep ur friendship but do not let ur feelings increased like just trynna date someone else ... So like move on from ur feelings for her not the friendship but feelings so yeah

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