It's not about cleaning the room and stuff. It's about being stuck like im not moving forward, nothing planned, no good friends, a struggling family which I'll have to support for which i should be applying to jobs and talking to people which i don't. No gym, only junk, no money, no one to truly talk to, no "my person". Whenever i trto to share anything with my irl friends all i get is "others have bigger problems than you and they don't complain". Ik I'm not trying and ik everything i cause of me but how tf do i even start

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Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

I get you so bad right now!! This is the exact situation I am stuck in right now. I think what helps is that you need to figure out what you wanna focus on first. I would say those friends are not your real friends. If you don’t talk at all, it will be very hard to find any good friends per se. Look around there could be a relative that u could talk to some aunt or uncle. I know it’s weird to hear but sometimes it’s the most unexpected people who end up helping and guiding you. From what I see is that you are stuck in a loop, try to connect to some people over the internet who were in similar boat to yours. Honestly I myself am also figuring out and life sucks a lot but we gotta push it through. Make meaning for ourselves :) I hope it was helpful if it wasn’t I wish I could do more.