“Its been 6 months now that i joined college, i made friends and it wasnt happy and colourful because i was also waiting for my competitive exam results too. I got em and i didnt qualify after a drop year. I joined this college then, which was already made an emotional hole in me. I tried to take the free counselling in college but i was already filled in with the other college stuff and also how people mostly and especially teachers just turn it to ur fault if im depressed or idk if its depression or not, they just said “tats how adulthood is u have to grow up” it felt like i was in the wrong and im making some mistake.. anyway i moved on cuz of my 1st frnd in college; ive seen videos saying make everyone ur friends dont stick to one, it was an undeniable situation cuz toh u be frnds with everyone each of em has their own gangs so u still end up with one or two frnds with u, and i got a bestfrnd to which i forgot my sorrows even there wasnt a need to share. Now after 6 months bro decided to discontinue after getting another college they wanted. I mn im happy for em genuinely, they didnt like physics and it was tuff for em so im not against them pursuing wat they like. But now im back to square one every emotions r coming back to me, im trying to escape this situation and its ruining my mood to study for my ongoing exams too… i just want to move on and ig i will as time passes but is there any need for me to actually feel this moment of pain? If i had the chance to totally take away this feeling without escapism what to do? And also why im missing my 6-months old frndship more than my 2 years old frndship?”
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Someone answered with kindness...
Okay , so i get that u couldnt get through ur exam but inorder to succeed u gotta keep trying again and again. Believe yourself and when everyday u feel like u cant take it no more give hrself a slight oush cz who knows ,u might figure it out tht samee day. Ik everybody wants friends and thts what makes life easier but trust me from my own experience ill tell you,having 2 to 3 true good besties is much better than being in a gang. In a gang ppl just give attention to sm and ignore others and all tht happens isnt true or isnt from the heart. But being friends with 2 to 3 ppl is much healthier , u can be urself without having to please ppl and worry abt what others might think abt u .And when u meet thr right person and bond wirh them for even a week timr itself tht feels like a wholeee year , so if u have good connection with some1 than a so caled frnd for a longg period of time definitely u will miss the bond with the good friend which was for 6 months rather than a so called frnd with whom u bonded with for 2 yrs.
We all r figuring life out, everything happens for a reason but never lose hope, and always keep urself happy. Stay blessed.