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“Its been 4 years and it was all lovey dovey earlier but now from past 2 months i been seeing that he's tooo much over doer in every situation like his energy is too much for me. Another thing, he can't control himself (sexually) when i am with him like i cant trust him when i am alone with him. I dont like it. He dont give me time to calm down he cant stay quiet for too long. He cant bear with my male friends. Even though i have introduced him as my bf. And made me unfollow every man i follow. He like this psycho who acts like SRK from darr movie He wont leave me and let me leave even though i said i wanna breakup What do i do?”

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Someone answered with kindness...

Girlie, if he's abusive, complain to the police. You mentioned you want to break up but he's not letting you? Stop caring about his feelings and just block him from everywhere, .ame sure he cant reach out to you. This is just horrible. He's incredibly toxic and your relationship is very unhealthy. You dont want to fuck up your mental health further trust me, you've got a life to live and its not with this man. Leave. Dont care about anyone, just get tf out of there any how.

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Another soul answered...

love, it's okay, breathe. you already know it deep inside, this, my sweetheart is NOT the future you saw 4 years ago. and this, definitely is not cute or romantic. all I see is, force & control. if possible, either talk it out DIRECT. CLEAR. but if not, pretend, pretend to be busy, bother yourself with random people, respond to texts, a little late, then a little more, then more. take it slow. don't let him know you're moving out AND MOVE TF OUT. because clearly, he's not the one. also, i love you & i know you'll have all warm & sunshine the day you decide you're ready. MY STRONG GIRL. YOU'RE MUCH MORE THAN YOU REALISE. and you know it. you do. bye bye stranger! I really really really pray, you get everything best for you.

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