Someone once asked...
Someone answered with kindness...
Not all decisions has to be perfect and based on some ideas, you a free to choose. What is a little suffering compared to a love? What kind of love it is if it does not involve a bit of suffering? I see more honor in a man who love and supports his family than in a man who brooms a yard and talk semi-smart ideas.
Another soul answered...
Attachments lead to suffering, but they also lead to joy. Looking at only one half leaves an incomplete picture. I have certainly experienced both with my family, and I would not give up the joy to avoid the suffering.
✦ This sign has found its fate.