“It is about my current girlfriend, we are together from more then 4yrs now.. though she's a good gurl and a very family oriented person, she talks about building a family and future together !... but i am very concerned about her skin color, although i know being an indian we shouln't judge brown skin people... and one more thing which is bothering me is that she's having vaginismus ! what should i do in this situation !?!”

Another soul answered...

youve been with her for 4yrs. Judging her for her skintone isnt right but im not going to shame you for it. its not smth she can control brown skin is beautiful and im sure your girlfriend is beautiful and her skin is beautiful too. please do not mention it to her as hearing that from someone you love is so hurtful. please try to not be concered about her skin color because thats nothing something you shld be concerned abt its a skin color it doesnt define her. just because shes darker doesnt mean you should worry. indian sterotypes are stupid and if your judging her based of it you should check yourself. and if she has vaginismus instead of judging her you must help her find resources to help her. As kind as possible im trying to say you coming on a platform venting abt this i hope its to change urself and not her. change your mindset abt skin color and help your gf. Take care