“It hurts alot when I think of I have never been loved by anyone around me. My mother is an exception but it's kinda same that she giving to my siblings. Being s transwoman in india and this is kinda how your fate is..I knew all the before coming out but I still hurts me alot. People who I have been with had no intention to have something serious with me..and the only guy who ever came and wanted to be with me turned out to be a jerk in the end..
Now this guy in my office is pretty chill and flirty with me.. I'm very cispassing, most of the people doesn't know I'm trans except my close friends. So I'm not sure if he knows it too..but I really like him and I do not want to risk this friendship”
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Someone answered with kindness...
You should definitely ask for his romantic opinions about you as it'll telk you where he stands with the idea of being in relationship with you and then you should tell him about your identity. And these guys will come and go, love. You matter, a lot. And love yourself, i know that doesn't seem enough but ut is. And try to befriend with people from the queer community and the people who support the queer community as they understand you better. Love is love. And you are loved 🩷