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“is it ok to suspect myself with autism when im not diagnosed but show various symptoms?? im too scared to go to a psychologist bcz what if im actually just a really weird neurotypical and i get labeled as a self diagnosing freak and everyone i love leaves and gets disgusted everytime they see my facE???? hi question mark?”

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Online testers are a great way to sort of self assess, but naturally should not be taken as medical doctrine. The fact that you are suggesting that it effects your every day life makes me think there is likely something more at play like you suggest. Neurodivergent personalities isn't necessarily a bad thing on its own, but it is when it effects your social life because social connections are very important for mental welling. Social stigmatic surrounding autism is at an all time low, so I wouldn't be to worried about "coming out as autistic." Do an online test and if it points to yes, I might consider seeking professional help more seriously. On the other side of the coin, if you are not, then just don't tell anyone. No harm no fowl. A lot of people have autism adjacent characteristics but don't quite cross the threshold of being autistic. That is very common. If your social relationships as of now are mostly intact, I would honestly abandon this line of thought and just try and manage your symptoms constructively. But I can't help but to feel from reading your message that that is the case. If you are a young kid or still under your parents health care plan and could not really do so anonymously, than things get more difficult. You can arrange anonymous consultations online, but you will have to pay out of pocket. Hope that helps, good luck!

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