“Is it ok to leave my toxic mother alone . We both suffered because of my father and i suffered Because of both of them. Right now we separated from my father but I can't tolerate my mother's mental torture right now she turned exactly like my father. I know she loves me but her behaviour and thought process are killing me. I feel like I'm not living my own life. I can't leave her alone because she is 65 . She gets her pension .”
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Someone answered with kindness...
I think u can hire a care taker and visit her as many times you are comfortable, like you cannot take up a task if it is emotionally hurting you to do it! You can visit her once a week or once a month, it depends on you because you cannot spend your whole life paying for your father's mistakes. I hope this helps!❤️