In 2024, I was in an online situationship with a Pakistani muslim guy. And I am a Indian hindu girl. Now I always knew that it's forbidden and all. At first I didn't have feelings for him but after a while I did because the way we used to talk was just so cute. He was my bby :/ oh and then he cheated lol. Ik there were no commitments but i was loyal to him. He was texting adult things to multiple girls. And one day he sent me those screenshots. I couldn't believe it. I was so heartbroken and I cried a lot. I still cry about it. He once bodyshamed me also and he is queerphobic. Ik he is literally shameless. Plus everyone knows the indian- Pakistani heat. And he sometimes disrespect my country. But i still used to think he is just an idiot and will change overtime. So my question is why do i miss him? I didn't even like him at first. It was after i got emotionally attached to him. Ik this whole thing is morally and ethically wrong, atleast for me it is. Oh and after months of ghosting him. We talked again for a bit. And i confronted him why did he sent adult texts to other girls. His replies were very non chalant. I said it hurt me. That mf literally had the audacity to say "sorry if it bothered you". Like omg wtf. I didn't even approach him first, he did. 2026 is ending now but i still think of him as my bby. Someone help me lol.

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In 2024, I was in an online situationship with a Pakistani muslim guy. And I am a Indian hindu girl. Now I always knew that it's forbidden and all. At first I didn't have feelings for him but after a while I did because the way we used to talk was just so cute. He was my bby :/ oh and then he cheated lol. Ik there were no commitments but i was loyal to him. He was  texting adult things to multiple girls. And one day he sent me those screenshots. I couldn't believe it. I was so heartbroken and I cried a lot. I still cry about it. He once bodyshamed me also and he is queerphobic. Ik he is literally shameless. Plus everyone knows the indian- Pakistani heat. And he sometimes disrespect my country. But i still used to think he is just an idiot and will change overtime. So my question is why do i miss him? I didn't even like him at first. It was after i got emotionally attached to him. Ik this whole thing is morally and ethically wrong, atleast for me it is. Oh and after months of ghosting him. We talked again for a bit. And i confronted him why did he sent adult texts to  other girls. His replies were very non chalant. I said it hurt me. That mf literally had the audacity to say "sorry if it bothered you". Like omg wtf. I didn't even approach him first, he did. 2026 is ending now but i still think of him as my bby. Someone help me lol.

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

So.. I'm an indian too from tamilnadu..
The thing is in online people do things like this continuously.. people fear less. You know people have encountered threats and stuffs..

And I know once you get attached it's difficult to get over with.. but you that's life.. u should move on for ur own good.

You will find a good guys who will love u for the way you are and he may give u the love u deserve...

Just feel the flow of life...

Life is too small to worry about stupids like this guy...
I will suggest you to find a hobby.. play games...which u interest. Video games, sports, indoor, make friends and stuff..

You will move on...

If you want a new friend.. I can be ur friend..