“I'm with a guy rn and we're casual. In the beginning he wanted to be in a relationship but i told him it's not my thing and now he agrees to continue it as it is. He likes me alot and is attracted towards me but the problem is i don't feel attracted towards him. I like him as a person and i feel an emotional connection and dependancy but no physical pull. Also i still kind of like a guy from my past who isn't in my life anymore and the current guy knows about him. I told him that i don't want to be in a relationship with him and i sometimes tell him to leave me cuz I'm scared of hurting him but he says i don't need to worry about him and he'll handle his feelings and is okay with things continuing like this. I sometimes feel guilty cuz I can't tell him that I never was attracted to him cuz that'll hurt him. I know the best choice is to leave him but i don't know guys help me out. What should i do.”
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Someone answered with kindness...
if there's no hope of you get attracted to him just tell him clear cut that there no way its gonna work for you because he is staying with you because there is no one right now in your life and he thinks that after seeing his efforts you are going to be with him or whatsoever, hurting him now is better than being with him while knowing that he is just a friend of you and knowing what he feels for you...it will hurts him hundred times more.