Someone once asked...

“I'm not a bad person. around 4 years ago i lied to my friends about something very serious because i wanted them to like me becuase i had just started high-school and i needed to make new friends but i don't have the heart to tell them the truth now because i love them so much and i cant loose them but i hate carrying the guilt with me. telling them the truth is not an option. what do i do?”

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Someone answered with kindness...

i think you have every right to feel the way you do. I understand where you're coming from... speaking from personal experience. honestly, it's really hard. but i think it's the right thing to do. if your friends are truly your friends, they will not leave you just because of that. i think they'll understand what you mean when you tell them the truth, and while they might feel distanced from you for a while, if you take the initiative to become honest, truthful friends again, i think it's really worth letting them know. After all, you love your friends, and I think that's what matters most. best wishes to you :)

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Another soul answered...

I'm afraid that telling the truth might be the only good option. It really depends on the friends in question. Are they forgiving? I have a friend that's also a bit sensitive, so I sometimes refrain from telling the truth very early. Despite this, I don't truly know what you feel. I'm sorry. Though, since you've been friends for four whole years, they sound like they're willing to listen. I hope you find this message.

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Another soul answered...

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