Someone once asked...

“I’m kind to others, yet drained when alone. Is kindness inherently draining?”

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Someone answered with kindness...

no, kindness begets kindness

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Wandering voices — answers no one has read yet

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Another soul answered...

No, all you need is one person who you can just be with, no matter about kindness, and that probably won't drain you. Sorry if that isn't good advice.