“im insecure abt my body, and the constant body shaming i have to endure from my family, friends, relatives, strangers n everybody. jokes r jokes, we all agreee, but when they r directly insulting u it's not funny anymore. im so insecure to the point i can't even look at the mirror straight. whenever smbody comes, i try wearing full clothes all covered. i have a petite slim figure, n everybody shames me, for how thin i am, that I look like a skelly (skeleton lol) n for my small tits.. im a 16 y/o
nothing counts even if i have a pretty face, hair etc etc. i srsly am tired of this, n i js dont feel like me, plus i got scoliosis, so ya...
can somebody seriously guide me or give me tips to gain weight n that it ACTUALLY works?
thanks a lot!”
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Someone answered with kindness...
Find someone who truly loves you whether that’s a boyfriend or a girlfriend, whatever makes you happy. I only suggest this because I’ve seen it with my own friends who are in relationships a lot of them gained a little 'happy weight,' and you can just tell they’re thriving with their partners. I know having a partner might feel like a lot right now given how you see yourself, but I genuinely think it could help. Just make sure you choose the right person who loves you for who you are, so it actually boosts your mental health and brings on that 'happy weight