Someone once asked...

“i'm in relationship and i had a boyfriend when i was young, and now i have a boyfriend again, we can say that the ex was a predator type person who was with me just for benefits physical benefits, i have told everything to my new bf and he was okay with all of this in starting and he loves me very much, but slowly he became obssessed and my past started tortuting him, he always think that there was someone before him , and i was with thim, and it became very serious that he now said that he wants breakup cuz this is causing trouble to both of us, im so helpless what to do, he is really in pain,we both love each other but this thing is hurting him alot”

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Someone answered with kindness...

everything have its fate, who is meant for you will always find a way, and which is not will also find a way not to stay but leave.

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Another soul answered...

first of all its not your fault . so stop thinking that it is all happening bcoz of you . we all do mistakes in life and you didnt knew your ex were predator. so if your bf really loves you he shoould except what you are not what you were . we learn from the life and we change and the people who loves her accept these changes . so first of all its not your fault that you were with toxic ex and its not your fault that your current bf is obssessed and getting hurt by your past . its his personal feeling of obsession . the only responsibility you have is trust each other and keep his trust alive and show him you arent the same person than its his choice he wanna leave or not .TC