“I'm in my early 20s right now. I have spent my whole life trying to focus on studies and build my career. I was so into it, i forgot about other things, like dating and stuffs. I have never dated anyone in my entire life. But now, I wonder if I am too late into falling in love. When I see people around me getting into relationships and getting partners so easily, I wonder if something is really wrong with me. I feel like I have missed out so much in life. I can't really imagine myself being in a relationship, or someone even falling for me. That doesn't mean I don't love myself. I love myself and I consider myself worthy. But imagining someone falling for me? I don't really think so.
And now I wonder if I'll just end up alone. Or maybe I get into an arrange marriage set up by my parents, and still be left alone in it. How can I get rid of this feeling?”
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Someone answered with kindness...
theres nothing with you.
what you are feeling is completely normal and please you are not late. you are worthy of love. why dont you try dating apps? or someone around you? but dont force yourself just bcs others are doing and you're not. and for the arrange marriage stuff if you dont like the guy you can always say no. dont settle in just because of your parents. think to yourself do you actually want boyfriend/girlfriend because of fomo? OR you actually want to love someone and somebody to love you? if this yes then know your type and find the girl/boy.
again you're not late
(coming from 21yo girl whos never been in love)
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Another soul answered...
Early 20s is veryyyyy young. For the longest time even I had the same thought. Then... I got into astrology. So now I just... Eat 5 star and do nothing ;)
You should try astrology, it might give you some hope. Or it might as well give a reality check. Whatever it is going to be, it will help in some way. Alsooooooo, manifestation is the key!!!!