Someone once asked...

“I'm in love with a married man, and surprisingly he's in love with me as well. He approached me, he was my first boss and then things happened and we fell in love. He has a real beautiful wife and a 10 year old kid. He and his wife are not in love anymore and they've been together for like 10 years but the love only lasted for 4 years. He loves me a lot but he's a married man and I was too naive to notice anything cause he was the first man who kissed me and my first love too. And idk what do I do? He says he and I can be together in future. But can't now because I'm too little. He's 15 years older than me. And it's illicit nobody knows. I just don't know what to do ans if I should continue this or am I wasting my time on this when I could get a potential husband relationship with my age men. But I love him a lot. He's a very busy man, doesn't talk to me everyday or spend time with me but when he gets time to talk to me he showers me with love. Idk.”

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Someone answered with kindness...

Girl.... Run from that person. That's clearly toxic and love-bombing you. Just imagine a person who has a wife and kid , still can have affairs with someone, he'll definitely leave you one day too if he finds someone better than you.

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Another soul answered...

Girl RUN. A man with a kid?? Let me tell u smth. Some age gaps are okay, but you know why a lot of older men like younger women? Because they are easy to manipulate. First of all, he's cheating on his wife with you, right? Once a cheater, always a cheater. I can ASSURE you this. The women he has been with for 10 years and has a kid with, he is cheating on her. What makes you think he won't do the same to you? He fell out of love with his wife after 4 years, he might fall out of love with you too and then start cheating on you with younger women. NEVER date a cheater. Secondly, he's obviously just like using you considering he doesn't text u much. He texts u when he is free and bored and then love bombs you. Just trust me, it's not worth it. And you lose em how u get em. If you get him by cheating (obv not u, he is cheating) but u will also lose him by him cheating