“I'm in love with a guy, who loved my best frnd in 2022 nd she was also his first love nd i always heard that EK MARD APNA PEHLA PYAR NHI BHULTA nd i was mutual in both of them so when they parted their ways, my best frnd told me to stay with him for some time as he was depressed nd had suicidal thoughts. So dk when I get this much attached to him nd it all started in 2023 dec. Now somedays r full of joy nd in June 2026, I confessed him about my feelings nd he also responded with love me too but we both now that, we have no future together due to religion nd now all the things started mess up in July..he forgott my birthday nd now we didn't even wished diwali to each other..things getting unbearable for me. First it it was easy for me, befor confession but now it's not, because I am thinking that he is making fun of me nd my feelings. I think that he's still stuck on my best friend as he still used to ask about her from me. Nd now I am thinking to end this all by the end of 2026 but the 2nd thought of mine is Why should I love him less just because he can't love me? Nd continue it to see where it ends in future”
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Someone answered with kindness...
Hii..this isn't about wether you should stop loving him or not...if we see through the view point of you still being in a relationship with him or not..then I would say you let him go... because there's no point in fighting for the love of a person who still can't forget his past love.
Especially if he's not even trying and putting efforts into building relationship with you rather than thinking about his first love.
It's okay..you can still continue to love him.. because I know feelings can't be turned on and off like nothing.
You can still love him AND let him go...
I know you love him so much but it's your life too. You can't just submit your whole of your life to someone you love...and they don't love you back...trust me it's not worth it..
And who knows..maybe the life is just waiting for you to let go of this so it can provide you with something better it has already planned... because how will you get something new if you aren't ready to let go your old things right?
I just want to say that YOU matter to yourself more than anyone!
I hope you've a beautiful life ahead, Stranger🍀 good luck