“I’m going through a really tough phase right now. I’m struggling with academic self-pressure, and my house environment is also affecting me a lot. Because my parents fight half of the time or my father keeps insulting my mom and sometimes me too. We have to walk on eggshells, careful what we say because if we say one thing against him, he will keep saying it again and again to hurt us. But if he does it, it’s right. He’s a pathetic excuse of a father who has done nothing but a legal financial father. I recently learned that maybe all this is affecting me and I need help. So I decided to go to therapy. But the therapist indirectly blamed me that I was choosing to be sad everyday instead of being grateful. She told me to count my blessings because there are so many dead, blind people in the world and they face struggles too. I was crying in front of her and this is what she told me. I was hurt even more then. That’s why it’s been such rough hectic months along with many health issues that I don’t even know what I’m doing. Am I faking or making excuses because I want to keep procrastinating and being lazy? Or am I truly affected or traumatised by my house environment?”
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Someone answered with kindness...
hey dove, no you are not faking it at all, i understand your situation.
im sorry that your dads behaving like that with you and your mom.
dont blame yourself sweety<3
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Another soul answered...
Heyyy
It's not your fault...I get it..it's not your fault..trust me...come here 🫂
It's gonna be alright...I get it how hard it is for you for it's gonna be alright...just study hard..get a job and make sure you and your mom doesn't suffer anymore...study hard so that you can be independent....and I'm sorry for whatever the therapist said that's not right...it's not your fault....if you need to talk I'm here...insta id - mana_si208
I'm here okay? You not alone 🫂
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Another soul answered...
DUDE LOOK..
bhaiii duniya me sabse bada koi dukh h to vo family problems haii tu bas appna health or mental health ka dhyaan rkh bhaiii ek din to financial independent ho jayega fir terko kisi chij ki problem nhi hoga just do it for yourself and your mom.. work hard bro you need to do and the universe belive that you can do it.. failing is temorary but giving up is permanent so just take care or yourself h mumma and word hard.. you also have dreams and mumma wants to see you successfull... so just ignore the thing which haunting you and work hard.. YES YOU CAN DO IT..!