“Im going out with this girl and its both our first time dating were both 16 and live around 30 mins away from each other she lives in a town I live in the country and there's nothing to do around us but walk and we've gone on 3 dates so far and we text all the time but nothing has happened not even holding hands and I want to but I don't know how to start it and the mood has to be right thing is is that I really don't want to screw this up but I think that that worry is screwing it up and I don't know what to do and I tried asking her friend who I know for help but she just said that she doesnt really talk to them about me but from what I can't gather is that she's enjoying it as well and we are going out for halloween soon and she's probably going to drink so we won't really be able to talk but I don't want anything to happen then even if it is holding hands because I want to be with her not drunk her even if she's a bit tipsy cause she goes from tipsy to drunk really quick please help me and thank you for reading all of this”
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Someone answered with kindness...
From my expierience go with the flow, no need to force things if the moment feels right go with your gut . A tip that i'm going to leave you NEVER INVOLVE FRIENDS IN TO YOUR RELATIONSHIP