Someone once asked...
Someone answered with kindness...
Maybe you both should sit and have a good and deep talk. Be supportive, i would say. Ig she is just scared to trust again and scared that her efforts won't be reciprocated again. If you really love her, give her some time rn and try to show that whatever less or little efforts she is putting rn, are being reciprocated and valued for. I think she is just scared to be herself again in a relationship. You should try your best to make her comfortable for now, hopefully everything works out. Don't try to rush anything, give some time. The brightest flowers grow on trees which are grown with patience and love. But make sure you also don't get hurt in the process. If she doesn't change even after all this, then start prioritising yourself. You can't waste your time and efforts if a person is not ready to change ever. All the best and take care of yourself! 🐣
Another soul answered...
Am sorry that you’re going through that….I’ve been there myself with a man who told beloved me but never changed…. If you’re sure that she’s not putting efforts to change her attitude and altitude towards you….you better walk away…. Breaking up sucks and people will call you named for dumping your partner….but what’s more important is that you prioritise yourself over a numb relationship…. Standing at square one after a breakup is scary but being with an avoidant person is way more scary and burdensome…. Hope this will help you a bit….
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