“I'm attached to an emotionally unavailable guy he says he loves me but i feel it's just lust from his side and my side i think it's just attachment I'm badly attached to him he treats me like shit say mean things the things i wont tolerate anyone else in my life not even my parents but when it comes from him i don't make scene i don't stand stand up for myself i want to get detached but idk how to do that”
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Someone answered with kindness...
Girl!!! It's better to leave him, and cry for a month than staying with him and crying whole life. And if you feel so attached and can't leave, write down every toxic behaviour of him, every thing he did that make you uncomfortable and sad, and ask yourself if you deserve it! Slowly you’ll see why he's not worth loving, not worth saying. And remember action speaks louder than words. And sometimes your self respect need to be stronger than your love.