“I'm an introvert person. I'm a boring person. I don't have many friends. I love to talk but at same time I don't know what to talk i talk little and then think what to talk next. Due to this people don't like to talk to me or won't talk to me much. The same way in my colleagues/friend group there are girls who will talk to other guys well but when it comes to me they don't be so much interested to talk. Sometimes they invite me if they have any plans but sometimes they don't. I'll be along with them but no one talks to me much. I feel very bad like I'm a invisible person. I feel awkward to be there thinking whether they are ok me being here or they are not or just for name sake they invite me. I consider them as my very good friends but i don't know whether they just see me as colleague. I have so many stuffs i want to share but i have no body to share or talk to. I just go alone everywhere and when i see people enjoying with their friends but I'm alone. I don't know what to do. Please suggest me what i can do ti improve my self so i can talk well with anyone and people also will be interested to talk to me.”
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Someone answered with kindness...
First of all I dont think u should improve yourself for others u should improve yourself for your sake not for others and don't give a fuck abt who don't care abt you just be yourself and find the right people All the best friend.
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Another soul answered...
Just talk shamelessly about your own self, life, interests and do it with a full confidence. In a wya people are dragged into your conversation. It's never about what you talk about because people just enjoy your company so whatever it is strike a conversation and go with it and use what you already have yourself. Because people just love it when you are yourself. If you pretend too much or over think every single conversation it backfires better to just enjoy because after a few days people would remember you and the memories made not what your conversation over the dinner was about.