Someone once asked...

“I'm a girl 16 in India Yk i am literally dying to be in a relationship because of seeing people around me dating people i feel very lonely I'm just 16 and already having fomo , i had a glow up i started to take my studies seriously and all, i thought now finally i can get someone i want but in not getting, i am getting attention enough for boys lust over but not like give there only attention to me ... Is something wrong with me!??”

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Someone answered with kindness...

Ah it's the same I'm of the same age and i feel the same way... I guess good things take time?? Yeah that's what i tell myself to feel better but ofcourse that doesn't help at all

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Another soul answered...

Heyy listen, from a girl that's 6 years elder to you, you're too young to be worrying about such things. The way relationships and attention from boys is hyped up, it's not all the same. I got into a relationship when I was 18 that lasted for over 3 years and I tell you, its not as big a deal as people make it to be. What you should be focusing on, as you already have, is your studies and health. Just don't do it with the intention of having someone to like you. There's nothing wrong with you, so please don't attach your self worth to how much attention you get from boys. It's not worth it 😭 And you have to be very careful when it comes to relationships, so if you're to be with someone, put their personality first. Whether you know this person is safe to be with, doesn't get angry easily, wouldn't harm you in any way. Don't get into a relationship just cuz many others do. Please make informed decisions cuz your safety matters most.

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Another soul answered...

No nothing is wrong with you

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