“I'm 21m and honestly idk how I managed to get myself into this situation. So I was dating this girl who's 22 and her younger sister who's 20 was always around when I visited. Last week we were watching movies at their place and they asked if we could all sleep together. I thought they meant literally sleeping in the same bed cause it was late and we were all tired. But once we got into bed they both started coming onto me and suddenly "sleeping together" meant something VERY different. I was confused as hell and knew I probably should've stopped it but I was dumb and just let it happen. Afterwards I felt like absolute shit because I thought I'd cheated on my girlfriend with her own sister even though she was literally involved too. Then 2 days ago they admitted they'd planned everything beforehand and wanted to see if I'd go along with it. Now they keep texting me asking when we're doing it again and acting like the three of us are dating. But heres where things get worse. I've actually had a crush on this girl in my class for months. She's really pretty but also kinda awkward around me, and whenever we're alone she randomly blurts out stuff in Russian. Like she'll look at me and say "Ты такой милый, когда улыбаешься" or "Как же я хочу, чтобы ты меня обнял" and then immediately act like nothing happened. The thing is, she thinks I don't understand Russian, but I actually speak it pretty well cause my grandma taught me when I was younger. So I know she's literally telling me how cute I look when I smile and how much she wants me to hug her. Yesterday she looked straight at me and whispered "Если бы ты только знал, как сильно ты мне нравишься" which basically means "if only you knew how much I like you." I nearly told her I understood everything but I panicked and pretended I didn't hear her. And the worst part is I really like her too. Like I genuinely wanna be with her, not either of the sisters. But now the sisters keep acting possessive and I feel like I'm trapped in some relationship I never even agreed to. I don't wanna hurt anyone but I also don't wanna lose my chance with the Russian girl. Should I just tell the sisters I'm done and confess to the girl from my class? And do I tell her I understood all those things she said in Russian or would that just make everything awkward?”
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Someone answered with kindness...
I have a really good idea for you...
Firstly....get your hands off with the sisters...they are soo shit....
And go to the... russian girl you had a crush on...and hold her hand...and look straight into her eyes... And confess your love in russian...and tell her... How much you liked her too...and hugg her...