Someone once asked...

“im 20F, never dated anyone..im in my 5th semester of college rn and i crave love....i want to date someone so bad. i see couples around me all day and i feel so alone”

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Someone answered with kindness...

Hey there! Im almost 3 years older than you and trust me, we are sailing in the same boat. when i was your age, i used to feel the same. All my close friends or my cousins are in a relationship, but im not. As your anonymous older sister, my advice to you is start loving yourself, you can find love in things you enjoy, spending time with your loved ones. Dont lose hope. Be yourself and never change yourself for someone else. Build your career first. The right relationship will come along naturally and DONT RUSH INTO THINGS. Take care and I know you have a bright life ahead of you. I'm rooting for you :)

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Another soul answered...

just a fomo and your social circle effect . damn sure you didnt even ask/approach any of the guys in your college even once, if not , then he aint gonna come magically to you .or else continue to live in your delulu world. girls believe me you have it easy, you just need to talk and open up a little bit. but because of this loneliness/desperation dont just date anyone without knowing him /yourself completely/your relationship goals/likes/dislikes/attachment styles/ goals . also remember we should'nt go for food shopping when we are hungry