Someone once asked...

“I'm 19... My last teen year and I never had a bf... Idk if I'm avoidant or what but I still haven't find someone I'm attracted to... Bcz my friends are taken and in every gathering they have something going on with their lives I out of peer pressure even wanted to get one... But realized I'm still not ready bcz i think I like my own space more than the need of someone else... Idk I feel like I'm repeating the same day maybe that's why I sometimes want to have a bf but then also realise I don't quite actually need one... Idk I'm confused... I'm becoming summer from 500 days of summer.”

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Someone answered with kindness...

Well , don't chase the things too much and everything comes at right time . There is not a thing like- if everyone is doing it you need to do it to right? Then what's the difference between them and you? Be patient, this is the time to build yourself and build you character, personality and observe the world and be happy

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Another soul answered...

Gurl just dont let that peer pressure get heavy on you . Every person has that different timings . You will have a loving bf when you will be actually ready and actually need one not just a piece to show up on parties and to being cool. Your soulmate will come on only its destined timing be it in your 20s or anything . So dont let this thought cross your mind. You are complete in yourself and just do your own thing. Enjoy yourself.Right time, right person will come on its own . Loads of love 🤍

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