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“I'm 18F so me shuru se introvert rhi hu aur when i was 11-12 yrs old i had many frnds but due to covid mere sare connections tut gye aur me aur socially awkward hoti gayi now i have only 4 frnds in my life and me normally bhi kisi se convo hold nhi kr pari hu aur i can't even hold eye contact me apne emotions bhi express nhi kr pati hu and there is one more thing i don't want to say but meri identity reveal nhi hogi to me bolri hu me in 18 yrs me kbhi theek se khush nhi reh pai hu meko bs lgta h me zindagi katri hu jaise taise only thing which makes me happy is watching reels My question is how to be happy irl aur meri awkwardness ko dur krne ke liye kya kru”

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Aww I heavily relate with you so much, even i am socially very awkward and i always wanted someone to listen to me all my life. I'm 18 as well and my childhood was similar as yours, i used to be a chatty child and asked loads of questions and talked to anyone I just met. I guess it fades away with time because during covid I became distant to people and lost my communication skills but now I'm doing better. Try to get out of your comfort zone, i know it sounds hard but eventually start by taking a small step, maybe talk to a shopkeeper and ask for something. Trust me no one is going to remember the conversation. It's just your head which is playing the whole game. People care about themselves too much to even think about the one thing you worry about so much. So try and slowly you'll get out of it I promise.

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